P.S : I Am So Full of Myself :P
Regards,
Ying
May God Bless You Always +


If you think that’s the way I am because of what you’ve heard, then keep it in your mind for the REST OF YOUR LIFE as I ain’t born to this world just to please everyone because I HAD ENOUGH pleasing. Think as you please and be responsible of your own thinking and behavior.
Now, haha.. I am not angry at someone or anything.. this is just a statement showing a person’s frustration towards critics.. Well, sometimes I do feel like saying those to certain people.. LoL .. when you got extremely annoyed of hearing some stupid illogically rumors about yourself. I guess this happens to most of the people around us and it’s perfectly normal in this Grey-Zone-World.
Was discussing with a church friend about it and I find it very interesting to think about. Now, What I am writing here is just my own opinion. You may or may not agree with this as this is the findings I’ve got after the discussion so far. So, what’s the deal?
Of course, as humans (maybe alien too?) we upset or angry over rumors or untrue statement people assume/judge on you. For those who are pretty sensitive – someone like me :P, will often feel troubled and miserable. Under those circumstances, we often try to please everyone. But, that does not bring any good because you will end up making your life so miserable over being someone that you are not-ought-to-be. Your urge of pleasing people is strong because of your strong will on trying to avoid conflicts and mistakes; your urge of trying to be perfect.. fear of low acceptance among people… please do dispute me if I am wrong about this.
Then, I came up with this..
Be the way you are happy with, accept people who love you as you are. Of course certain people might not approve your way but remember.. don’t try to please everyone or else u make yourself suffer.. It’s their loss that they don’t see the diamond in you. YOU’RE SHINING BECAUSE OF WHAT YOU ARE TODAY(Angeline 2010)
YES, be yourself! Shine through your unique self! Let people know that you have a rare diamond in you (not sure this is an appropriate metaphor.. hehe). Who(Human in general) don’t do mistakes? Tell me and I will “belanja” you one set of KFC X-meal :P
But still, we shall not forget this:
Matthew 22:39 And the second is like unto it, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself.
~ One who loves God supremely, will not live in disobedience; one who loves his neighbour as himself, will seek the welfare of those around him.
As long as we play our own role rightly in God’s eyes.. at least try our best to live God’s way, I strongly believe eventually things will turn out fine as time will prove everything and it always will. So, why wasting times on those rumours and judgement which never be beneficial to us? Let time proves it.
P.S : Don’t judge a book by its cover… Well, sometimes I do :P
Regards,
Ying
May God Bless You Always +